How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 18:21
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is your age now, and what age do you prefer to stay at forever?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Procrastinates a lot.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How often do prisoners try to escape from jail/prison, and how many of them succeed?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What is your review of House of the Dragon, season 2, episode 8, "The Queen Who Ever Was"?
Does not procrastinate.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What are some downsides to living in Newfoundland and Labrador (besides the weather)?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What I need from you?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How do empaths destroy narcissists?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Do not set goals—set systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How do I get my body in shape?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
That's it for today.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.